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picnob/user fails if username includes "." #16643

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Willow-Zero opened this issue Sep 5, 2024 · 4 comments
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picnob/user fails if username includes "." #16643

Willow-Zero opened this issue Sep 5, 2024 · 4 comments
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RSS bug Something isn't working

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@Willow-Zero
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Routes

/picnob/user/:id

Full routes

/picnob/user/decolonizing.love

Related documentation

https://docs.rsshub.app/routes/social-media#user-profile-picnob

What is expected?

https://www.instagram.com/decolonizing.love/
this account is the target, and its posts should be provided in rss format

What is actually happening?

the feed returns a server side error

Deployment information

RSSHub demo (https://rsshub.app)

Deployment information (for self-hosted)

Linux, Arch

Additional info

using thunderbird as my rss reader

This is not a duplicated issue

  • I have searched existing issues to ensure this bug has not already been reported
@Willow-Zero Willow-Zero added the RSS bug Something isn't working label Sep 5, 2024
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github-actions bot commented Sep 5, 2024

Searching for maintainers:

To maintainers: if you are not willing to be disturbed, list your username in scripts/workflow/test-issue/call-maintainer.js. In this way, your username will be wrapped in an inline code block when tagged so you will not be notified.

If all routes can not be found, the issue will be closed automatically. Please use NOROUTE for a route-irrelevant issue or leave a comment if it is a mistake.
如果所有路由都无法匹配,issue 将会被自动关闭。如果 issue 和路由无关,请使用 NOROUTE 关键词,或者留下评论。我们会重新审核。

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another account with a . works. unclear why this one doesnt, may open a new issue if i figure out why

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TonyRL commented Sep 5, 2024

/test

/picnob/user/decolonizing.love

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github-actions bot commented Sep 5, 2024

Successfully generated as following:

http://localhost:1200/picnob/user/decolonizing.love - Success ✔️
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      <description>&lt;img src=&quot;https://scontent-ham3-1.cdninstagram.com/v/t39.30808-6/431755545_383931814586014_289192874865270517_n.jpg?stp=dst-jpg_e35_p828x828_sh0.08&amp;amp;efg=eyJ2ZW5jb2RlX3RhZyI6ImltYWdlX3VybGdlbi4xMTI1eDExNTEuc2RyLmYzMDgwOC5kZWZhdWx0X2ltYWdlIn0&amp;amp;_nc_ht=scontent-ham3-1.cdninstagram.com&amp;amp;_nc_cat=110&amp;amp;_nc_ohc=fC5oAUC7BB4Q7kNvgFme2tu&amp;amp;edm=ABmJApAAAAAA&amp;amp;ccb=7-5&amp;amp;ig_cache_key=MzMyMDc2ODM1NzA3MjkwNjgzNA%3D%3D.3-ccb7-5&amp;amp;oh=00_AYAi-iaJnwWi4uv7hBm353NU2wJTyLR-7PV9VsKuG2C0Mg&amp;amp;oe=66E01291&amp;amp;_nc_sid=b41fef&quot; referrerpolicy=&quot;no-referrer&quot;&gt; &lt;br&gt; Today, March 10, is my Birthday. This day prompts a period of reflection and gratitude, not just for the passage of another year, but for the rich heritage and resilient spirit I&#39;ve inherited.&lt;br&gt;My matrilineal tribes are the Kikuyu and the Maasai of East Africa. Despite the Bantu patriarchal revolution 400 years ago, the Kikuyu have retained much of our matriarchal roots. According to our folklore, the first humans were Gikuyu and Mumbi, and each Kikuyu clan is named after their daughters. Strength and independence in Kikuyu women are encouraged; we can marry ourselves; Africa&#39;s first female Nobel Prize winner, Wangari Maathai, is Kikuyu. Region-wide, the Kikuyu are considered to have the strongest women. As aforementioned, matrilineal naming is an important part of our culture. The name Mwihaki, for example, is given to the strongest girl. And that’s the name of my mother.&lt;br&gt;While the Kikuyu descend from Mt. Kenya, the Maasai are a patriarchal tribe whose origin story begins in the crater of a volcano in the savannah. To be a full man in the Maasai, you have to complete your warrior training. Traditionally, the final test had you kill a lion.&lt;br&gt;People often are in awe of my resilience. But being born to a Mwihaki, whose father was a Maasai warrior, this was foreordained. My ancestors passed on genes to not hesitate when faced with one of the largest predators, so don’t be surprised when I don’t with mere mortals. Kikuyu women showed me that even surrounded by warrior tribes, the Kikuyu would remain the most powerful and largest tribe in Kenya without requiring muscle or a spear. I’m proud to carry on the ancient legacy of the women from the Rift Valley, which is the cradle of life, and represent the image of the power and the divine feminine that gave birth to all of humanity.&lt;br&gt;Thank you, Michael Chambers, for championing Black femininity and Black life in your photography 🙏✊🏾&lt;br&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;https://www.pixwox.com/profile/michaelchambers.mc.photo/&quot;&gt;@michaelchambers.mc.photo&lt;/a&gt; &lt;br&gt;🌟 Follow me for more polyamory content from a decolonizing lens&lt;br&gt;🔍 If you&#39;re looking for personalized polyamory coaching, you can book your session through the link in the bio.&lt;br&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;https://www.pixwox.com/tag/polyamorous/&quot;&gt;#Polyamorous&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.pixwox.com/tag/polyamory/&quot;&gt;#polyamory&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.pixwox.com/tag/nonmonogamy/&quot;&gt;#nonmonogamy&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.pixwox.com/tag/openrelationship/&quot;&gt;#openrelationship&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.pixwox.com/tag/relationshipgoals/&quot;&gt;#relationshipgoals&lt;/a&gt; </description>
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referrerpolicy=&quot;no-referrer&quot;&gt; &lt;br&gt; Throughout their contemplation of open relationships, hierarchical polyamorists tend to focus on how a hierarchical structure can enhance the well-being of the primary couple, without giving significant consideration to the rights and dignity of their potential partners. Secondary and even tertiary partners are treated as disposable on the whim of someone they’re not even in a relationship with.&lt;br&gt;This lack of concern for others is often rooted in the fear of the primary couple,which leads to a more self-centered approach to non-monogamous relationships.&lt;br&gt;Hierarchical polyamorists are the way they are partly because of the individualistic and capitalistic nature of modern society. These cultural factors often lead to people perceiving relationships as transactional, primarily focusing on their personal gains and benefits. As a result, individuals may be more prone to exploit and use others, particularly when fear or insecurity is involved.&lt;br&gt;And Opening up a monogamous relationship brings up a lot of fears:&lt;br&gt;Fear of abandonment&lt;br&gt;Fear of loss of control&lt;br&gt;Fear of jealousy&lt;br&gt;Fear of loosing financial situation&lt;br&gt;Fear of a communication breakdown between the couple&lt;br&gt;To cope with this vulnerability hierarchical polyamorists try to control their partners&#39; relationships with other people. While controlling their partner and who they date provides temporary relief for a primary couple’s fears, they ultimately undermine the trust and respect necessary for a healthy and fulfilling non-monogamous relationship.&lt;br&gt;Hierarchical polyamory rather than acting as a safety harness that provides security and support for someone to make the crossover to egalitarian polyamory, functions more like a bungee cord that ultimately pulls couples back to traditional monogamous beliefs.&lt;br&gt;Follow us for more polyamory tips&lt;br&gt;And if you&#39;re looking for personalized polyamory coaching you can book your session through the link in the bio.&lt;br&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;https://www.pixwox.com/tag/polyamorous/&quot;&gt;#Polyamorous&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.pixwox.com/tag/polyamory/&quot;&gt;#polyamory&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.pixwox.com/tag/nonmonogamy/&quot;&gt;#nonmonogamy&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.pixwox.com/tag/openrelationship/&quot;&gt;#openrelationship&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.pixwox.com/tag/relationshipgoals/&quot;&gt;#relationshipgoals&lt;/a&gt; </description>
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