[tests] Fix packetbeat system tests on windows

[marc-gr]

Proposed commit message

In windows net.Interfaces() and pcap.FindAllDevs() naming are inconsistent. This changes the way we check in tests to fallback to find them by address, making the process more robust.

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Disruptive User Impact

Related issues

• Closes x-pack/packetbeat: System tests failure on Windows #38142

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Pinging @elastic/sec-windows-platform (Team:Security-Windows Platform)

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Pinging @elastic/sec-linux-platform (Team:Security-Linux Platform)

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